seconds?

Don't make life harder for yourself. If you have to work so hard for people to accept you they're probably not the people you want in your life. I mean, when you go to buy some new clothes, do you try on one size and then walk out and buy it? Everything needs to fit perfectly on you. Okay, maybe not perfectly, but well enough that you look good. Of course you all look good. Friends are the same way. Find them, try them in your life, see if they fit, and keep them around. I can admit I've had to toss a few friends out. Even exchanged a few as they didn't always "fit". It may hurt you if these friends have been in your life for a while and you have come to discover that it's just not beneficial to be friends with them. Even more so if they're a significant other, but the same rules apply. You tried them on, they fit until you outgrew them and now you need to go shopping again, right? Or maybe....maybe you recycle. Maybe you even go to the thrift store and buy some used stuff. Ewww..Ha. Ha....

In a way I guess we're all getting sloppy seconds. What really stinks is when you keep trying on the same piece and every time you look at it in the mirror, it doesn't fit. Maybe you don't need to keep trying to change the piece. Maybe just drop the piece on the floor and walk out of the store......

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